Ripped form kyson's blog.. meaningful... and true..
Once upon a time there was this girl who had four boyfriends.
She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adored him with rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but the best.
She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.
She also loved her 2nd boyfriend. He was her confidant and was always kind,considerate and patient with her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult times.
The girls 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him!
One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life and wondered, I now have four boyfriends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.'
Thus, she asked the 4th boyfriend, 'I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'
'No way!', replied the 4th boyfriend, and he walked away without another word..
His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.
The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?'
'No!', replied the 3rd boyfrien d. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm going to marry someone else!'
Her heart sank and turned cold.
She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, 'I have always turned to you for help and you've always been there for me.
When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?'
'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!', replied the 2nd boyfriend. 'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.'
His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the girl was devastated.
Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go..'
The girl looked up, and there was his first boyfriend. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect.
Greatly grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!'
In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:
Your 4th boyfriend is your body. No matter how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.
Your 3rd boyfriend is your possessions, status and wealth.When you die, it will all go to others.
Your 2nd boyfriend is your family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the grave.
And your 1st boyfriend is your Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.
However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever you go.Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you and continue with you throughout Eternity.
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
u noe..some times.. its like its not our fault that we think things that way.. humans are humans cux we are fulled of greed, expectations.. worst.. we arent modest no matter how modest we appear to be.. its like ... hu wun wab to be the best of wat they want to be? its like freak la... how fake can man go? to impress ppl that are closed to us.. our loved ones, the ones that we wana impress? bosses, friends, rivals, enemies.. there is infinity to wat we can do, wat we want to do, wat we can be proud of.. but is society teaching us the correct way to live ? as in is it fair for everyone to be in a hierachy of everything? it jux isnt fair.. as in.. no way can ppl do things perfectly in everything.. thy nid hlp...
n whn frens hlps, partnership comes in.. sometimes.. we may even tended to think.. its that reali partnership? is there like a trade in it? y mux pppl become so realistic? its like is it such a betrayal to hlp one another? the worst is.. even by hlping one another.. there isnt any sincere appreciation... not toking about friends.. but also in families.. in ani close relationship.. y mux things turned out to be that way?
appreciation is a very important virtue.. its either u have it or u dun.. if u dun have it.. dun ask for it.. if u have it.. be generous enough to show it.. simple conservations do make ppl worst day to smile.. deep inside my heart.. i duno how appreciative i am to others..but i noe... i lived like i nv gona lived the next day.. ppl hu noes shld understand that my gestures speaks louder thn anithing.. the fact that i fooled ard with u shows that i still takes u as a fren.. i wan to be of someone even if it makes u thinks that im irritating.. i dun mind being 1.. living long isnt good.. life is short.. do wat u can, do wat u want.. cux u nv noe wat tomorrow has for u..
wat comes ard goes around.. to take care is the simplest way out..
butterflies freedom of flight
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Totally About Me
Name: Viv - the survivor -
the warrior hu fights.
Birthday: 10 apr 1990
my rules of life
1. i am hu i am
2. wat comes ard goes ard... - update whn i think of ani..
Rules
the rules here.
u can scold mi for wateva u wan..but dun doubt my love
for the things i love
Wishing For..
wishlist here.
1.mr right..(i dun think i will wan ani now.. but maybe if i get 1 i might think of changing myself?)joking..
2.happiness- i have been longing for true happiness.. those that u happy till u cry.
3.love of wat it meant to live
4. to be some1 of some value not only to myself, but oso to mani others..
5. have a lifelong soulmate!!!
6. i wana go backpaking!!!
7. i wana be a prision officer!! - i noe it will be hard to happen...
8. i wana go to be some educational missionaries...